I’ve been told by a few people to stop being cheap. It’s interesting that every person who has told me that has a lower net worth than me. They don’t seem to understand the purpose of being frugal. I think they believe I enjoy self deprivation and sacrifice. There are probably a few of you out there who get a rush from participating in activities that bring you within an inch of insanity or death, but I don’t particularly care for such things.
I’m not independently wealthy. At least, not yet. Although there are certain material possessions I quite enjoy, my primary purpose for wealth accumulation has very little to do with stuff accumulation. For me, being frugal is a means to the ultimate goal: FREEDOM.
You see. When you don’t have the resources, i.e., money, to buy the things that are necessary for your survival, you’re at the mercy of your provider. Whether that provider be an employer, a spouse, a parent, or, for those of you who are self-employed, a customer, you’re a slave.
Nothing makes me more uncomfortable than feeling out of control. I’ll tolerate authority, but I don’t like it. I’ve decided I’ll conform just enough to function and progress in society. If you’re even a little like me then you’ve thought about the possibility of losing your passion for your current profession. If you didn’t have any money, would you be relegated to a job that the mere thought of caused you to seize up in terror?
You may already have a boss whose face makes you ill. Would you look at that mug everyday if you were financially independent?
What about your spouse? Would the loss of their income render you insolvent? I’m not suggesting that you don’t have an income of your own. You might bring in more bread than your significant other, but the question remains: Do you depend on their spoils?
Regardless of how well you get along with any of your providers, unforeseen circumstances could lead to the deterioration and dissolution of your current arrangement.
Death, disability, bankruptcy, incarceration, and ANY other untold number of things could leave you wondering how you’re going to take care of yourself.
Okay that’s pretty grim, but allow me to share what drives me to be frugal. It’s the uncertainty. It’s the feeling that ultimately, with the exception of God, all my hope rests in me. I look forward to the day that I won’t have to work. Not that I’ll ever stop working, I just don’t want to be required to work in order to sustain myself. I want the freedom to tell, at a moment’s notice, any previous provider that I’m done…
A couple of years ago, I got a taste of what freedom feels like. At the time, I had $7,500 saved up. Although I worked for a wonderful company, I suffered from stress-induced, work-related chest pains. Basically, I hated my job. On the fateful evening of Wednesday, November 27, 2006, an inconsiderate and arrogant manager I worked with decided to chastise me in front of a fellow team member. Being that I was a colleague and not his wife or kid, I was especially infuriated by this behavior. Friday, November, 29, 2006 rolled around, and I politely and professionally put in my two weeks resignation notice without so much as a single job prospect.
Now, $7,500 may seem trivial, but it was enough to get me through about three months of unemployment. Fortunately, my job search only lasted two weeks. Although I admit my skills were in pretty high demand at the time, the stench of desperation is still the saboteur of the most qualified of candidates.
As was the case a couple years ago, I find the quickest and simplest way to save money is to decrease your expenses. Primarily because dramatically increasing your income in the short run, generally, isn’t practical. As a salaried employee, overtime is a waste of time if you’re looking to increase your net cash flow immediately. You might get a bonus of some unknown amount if you work longer, harder, and faster for your employer.
Even if you’re an hourly employee, overtime may not be an option provided by your employer.
If you decide that a second job is the way to go, I’d encourage you to crunch the numbers before jumping in. Where I live, middle income workers could end up forking over 40% of those additional earnings in taxes, e.g, state, federal, Social Security, Medicare, so it may not be worth the effort to take a part-time job making much less than what you earn as a full-timer.
If you live a frugal life, you’ll have more time and money to follow your passion or focus on more lucrative business opportunities. If you have a business idea that requires a modest amount of start up capital, you can use your own savings to finance your vision. You won’t have to fool with investors or lending institutions who’ll, rightfully, want a return on their investment. Again, you’ll be free to run your business as you desire without outside input from those who have a vested interest in your success.
Frugality means adhering to a simpler, greener way of living. You’ll have to give some things up. Although it may be painful in the beginning, consider what you’ll eventually obtain: FREEDOM.
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Thanks for writing, I really enjoyed reading your most recent post. I think you should post more often, you clearly have natural ability for blogging!
Thanks for reading. That’s really encouraging.
Shawanda
Great Article. You inspire me. I’ve been working on reducing expenses, and focus on wealth building. In the next 5 years I’m thinking about buying into a franchise. Any thoughts on that?
Thanks! I’m no authority on franchising, but I think it’s a viable option to owning a business as long as you do your research and avoid going into debt to do so. Before buying into a franchise, I’d consider whether I’d get a better return on my investment by developing my own systems and brand recognition. As a franchisee, you’ll give up some freedom in operating your business. You’ll also be required to pay the franchisor royalties even if your business is unprofitable. For more information, a good starting point is Entrepreneur’s Franchise Zone.
Shawanda, what a wonderful voice you have (and a gorgeous face)!
I stumbled upon your blog from a response you made over at Get Rich Slowly. So glad to have found you!
You have a very valid point about the cost of higher taxes for getting a second job, or working OT for your employer. The book Rich Dad, Poor Dad expounded on that nicely. Frugality absolutely has its place, and it’s good to see it making a comeback.
Many people overlook starting a small second business right out of their home – it’s the tax write offs that are such a boon! From deductions in utilities to inventory and mileage, depending on what you choose to pursue, it opens up many possibilities and allows you to be in control of your own schedule.
I work 32 hours a week, and I telecommute for my company. It’s fantastic – my high speed internet is paid for, and my office space is a tax write off. I only use 1-2 tanks of gas a month. I kept my first home as a RE investment (hello tax perks), took some of the sizeable equity out of it, and purchased a tiny home on 4 acres just 1 hr from the city. My dream is to create a small Farmer’s Market business on the side, while continuing to work my regular job 32 hours a week. I was offered 40 hrs a week recently, but decided to stay at 32. I would get no better tax breaks for working more hours, and it would reduce the time available for my other goals. The Farmers Market business would allow all sorts of tax write offs, and would be such a fun side venture!
Even if it’s just selling some things on Ebay as a small cottage business (I’ve done that too – covered my groceries & utilities each month), only a small profit is required for it to be eligible for those tax perks!
It’s best to think outside the box whenever possible!
Deb – Thanks for dropping in AND commenting!
I envy you for the arrangement you have going. I wish I could telecommute, even if only part-time. You’re wise in pursuing income opportunities separate from your regular job. I think it’s interesting that so many financial experts preach the importance of diversification when it comes to our retirement portfolios, but make no mention of the concept when speaking of our income. I really didn’t think much about it until I read the book Multiple Streams of Income by Robert Allen.
my bad, it was at Ramit’s blog that I found you. Oops!
I would really like to hear more about some of your fave PF or personal growth books, or other similar themed books. Like you, I’m always on the hunt for useful information in regards to personal finance or personal growth. I’m firmly convinced that if Americans would turn off their tv’s and x-box’s, and READ, and learn to do more for themselves (repairs, investing, income streams, and being more creative and productive in general), they’d be in much better shape. One of my all time fave books is The Millionaire Next Door, because it caused a fundamental shift in how I view wealth accumulation, and opened my mind to possibilities I never knew existed. I don’t care about being wealthy, I never have, but I care about having enough. Enough is my goal. I’m just starting to read Eight Steps to Seven Figures by Charles Carlson. Another really interesting book that I just read is Buckets of Money by Raymond J. Lucia. It’s a bit pedestrian at first, but then becomes very interesting and has very valuable info regarding financial planning for retirement.
You have a great day, nice to `meet’ you!
Deb – Likewise. The Millionaire Next Door is one of my absolute favorites as well.
I also like:
The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey
How to Live Well Without Owning a Car by Chris Balish
The 4-Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
How to Live Well Without Owning a Car may seem out of place, but like the others, it opened my eyes to a new way of thinking.
I also really like Women & Money and the 2009 Action Plan by Suze Orman. These books focus more on the technical aspects of financial planning.
Buckets of Money looks interesting. I’ll have to check it out.
Shawanda, This may sound way off the mark but you've got the focus and reflection to write a serious book of your own.
Many books are nothing but individual sections of personal insight or technical data woven together by a good writer.
Kiyosaki has recently written another book on Real Estate but in it Donald Trump has a section & one of his quotes from the past is "Don't depend on anyone else for providing your financial security." I don't know your ultimate goal but you should consider writing at least one book before you lose interest in a forum and pursue other enterprising ventures. Think about it.
I second this. I would love to read a book written by you!
I like this post, I can feel the passion and reality behind the words.
Asides from the writing, I find that the idea of ‘frugality’ is great, but it’s very difficult to put into practise. Going from hemorrhaging money to saving up is a difficult process — for example, a transition as simple as one from eating fast food everyday to bringing a home-made lunch is extremely difficult for me, because at midday I just need the taste bud relief.
But it’s great to see the results of frugality — and the desired goal: freedom.
Spending less and staying frugal starts with changing the mind. I used to work for a highly prestigious company for years where I earn a considerably higher salary than my peers. But like you I was never happy. Waking up every morning and dragging my feet to the office is so difficult for me. It took me 6 years before I took the plunge and be on my own. It was difficult at first — I had to totally re-engineer my mind and my spending habits.
I hope more people would discover your story and follow your lead.
@Herbert – You’re right. It’s difficult to change habits. I’ll use working out and eating healthy as an analogy. Go ahead and call me crazy, but I want to lose 8 pounds. Yes. I said 8 pounds. I’m under no illusion that I’m never going to slip up and eat something I shouldn’t. When I fall to temptation, I just say “tomorrow is a new day.” If I don’t keep trying, then I have to accept that I’ll never achieve my fitness goals. Fortunately, I’m not okay with that.
If you’re not a good cook, I’d recommend trying some of the recipes at RecipeZaar.com. You can search for recipes by ingredients. The user reviews are the best. Since many of the readers are experienced cooks, they offer a lot of good advice on substituting ingredients and modifying the recipes. Most of what I make is pretty delicious, it’s just carving out the time to prepare my meals.
@Adventurous Wench Travel Store – Thank you. I’m glad you brought up the notion of changing the mind. It’s the most important element when adopting a new lifestyle.
I write down inspirational quotes on sticky notes, and post them in front of me. On occasions when I start feeling sorry for myself, I’ll read them to remind me of the importance of my thoughts. When it comes to our thoughts, my favorite quote is:
“Men are disturbed not by things, but by the view which they take of them.” – Epictetus
I actually think of this quote as, “Men are disturbed not by the things that happen, but by their opinion of the things that happen.” I heard it on the Dave Ramsey Show.
Definitely something I adhere to much more these days – frugality.
I’ve made a few financial blunders right after graduating college, and since then it has taught me a valuable lesson in financial intelligence.
But I agree with the whole point of being frugal as a way to increase your freedom. There’s nothing like having the money you “need” in order to at least survive and live comfortably while having the freedoms to pursue the things that really matter to you. It’s a bit more difficult to do that with unnecessary debt as a perpetual burden.
i am hopping that with very hard work on Affiliate marketing, maybe i would be able to achieve Financial Freedom in 2 years time.;~-
wealth building should be the priority of most people not just leisure and playing some online games and stuffs like that`’:
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